It’s come to that time again where I take a good look at myself
and sternly tell my reflection, “right enough is enough, we’re going on a diet”.
I’m definitely what you could call a yo-yo dieter. I spend 80% of my time eating what I like,
whenever I like then the remaining 20% furiously trying to undo all the damage
and fit into my skinny jeans. Having an aim
helps. For example, for my last holiday
abroad I lost 8lbs in 3 weeks and for our wedding I lost 10lbs.
That was 2 months ago and I have now put that 10lbs back
on. Ok so we’re not talking huge amounts
of weight here but the principals, motivations, hard work and potential failures
are the same.
A combination of two resources has been key to my past successes. These are the My Fitness Pal app used to track calories and offset this
against calories burnt by exercise, and Kate Adams’ Flat Tummy Club Diet.
The Flat Tummy Club Diet is by far my favourite
diet book,
focusing on healthy food choices and portion control rather than calorie
counting. Kate Adams uses the Stages of
Change Model to demonstrate building a successful case for weight loss and
maintenance.
The Stages of Change Model:
- Pre-contemplation: you don’t acknowledge there is anything to
change
- Contemplation:
you acknowledge there is a problem but are not ready to make a change
- Preparation: you set your intention and work out
how you are going to change
- Action: change
- Maintenance
- Relapse
In the past I have been through ‘action’ then failed
miserably at ‘maintenance’ before spectacularly falling into ‘relapse’. At the moment I would say I’m somewhere
between contemplation and preparation.
These are necessary steps, as Kate points out jumping straight into
action usually results in good intentions falling by the way side 3 days into
your new diet. Preparation is key.
So why do I actually want to lose weight? I’ve come to the point in my life where I’ve
accepted I won’t ever be a size 6, 5ft10 model and I actually quite like my
some of my humps (my lovely lady lumps as Fergie would say) but I also have a ‘happy
weight’ which I aim to get to and then (this is the tough bit) stay at.
In a nut shell, I’d like:
- my clothes to fit better and not have to buy
bigger knickers
- to feel more confident
- to stop feeling guilty about what I eat
- to be healthier and learn to prepare
nutriet-rish home-made meals
- to eat a larger variety of foods
- to stay at a steady weight and not crash diet
pre-holiday/event
- to set a good example
- to have clearer skin
- to feel less sluggish, have more energy and fitter
- Mr H to think phwoar look at my wife (!!!!!) and
actually agree with him!
So why is it sooooo hard?!
These are my excuses:
- I like chocolate (see Chocolate Blackout)
- I’m lazy
- I don’t/can't be bothered to cook and have very little food knowledge
- I have a very limited diet, eating the same
foods day in day out
- I eat like a student
- I’m too busy
- Processed food is easier to prepare and lasts
longer in the fridge/freezer
- I’d rather eat crisps, chocolate or toast than
fruit
- I comfort eat
- I can’t say no
- I’m married to a chef (see Mr.H page for more
details)
But the mother of all reasons/excuses = “I’M JUST SOOOO TIRED!”
Tiredness is my nemesis.
When I’m tired all good intentions go out the window. I pick at my skin, make bad food choices,
snack rather than making meals, skip workouts and generally feel sorry for
myself.
Sometimes you just have to admit you’re tired and re-coup
but mostly I’ve gotten into a cycle of bad eating, irregular sleep patterns and
lost all motivation. The toughest part
when embarking on a new regime is keeping the willpower to get through days
when I feel tired and fed up. Willpower
is the hardest thing in the world, especially when you’re mentally tired from a
day at work etc. So how do you crack it?
- Make a plan
- Be honest
- Walk away
- Keep temptations out of reach (take lunch and
snacks to work and leave your wallet at home, ban chocolate from the house etc)
- Have alternatives
- Avoid trigger situations
- Keep busy
- Remember why you’re doing this
- Avoid mindless eating
- Don’t starve yourself (even willpower needs
energy)
I’m not suggesting you never eat chocolate ever again, but
it may be a good idea to avoid temptations like this initially until your
willpower is strong enough and portion control is in place. They say it makes 21 days to develop a new
habit. Kate Adams’ Flat Tummy Club Diet starts off with a 21 day plan to get the ball rolling. I love this idea on Pinterest of using 21 sticky notes, removing one each day as a motivational tool.
Ok so I don't know about you but I’m starting to feel more motivated already!
